I'm a kid and i'm a shame of my boobs like i'm a woman i have 15 years old and i do not go to gym but i do it all at home becouse i'm a shame,i do not no what to do......i'm on a diet and that doesn't help pleas help if you can pleas.....
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I'm a kid and i'm a shame of my boobs like i'm a woman i have 15 years old and i do not go to gym but i do it all at home becouse i'm a shame,i do not no what to do......i'm on a diet and that doesn't help pleas help if you can pleas.....
And important thing to add is that that eveeryone is laughing at you and not only to me but every boy who have boobs....
PS:When are you give me an ancer i will do as you sead becouse i listen every edvice....hury and give me an ancer....
First, don't be ashamed. There is a reason for everything and I have a feeling this has made you very special, sensitive to others and a kind person. Have you discussed this with your parents or school counsilor? What advice have you been given so far? Is your body weight and height within normal ranges? Also, did you know that many football players have "man-boobs"; they just hide them under muscles and sports equipement. Get back with some info to help you with.
Yes i have been talk with my parents and my mom sead that i don't need to be asame and that will pass,and my relatives sead that too and i trust them.But when it will pass.In the school i am very shame and my school friends laugh at me.Tell me what to do.My school is different then you'rs ENGLISH SCHOOL's.I'm Bosnian.Here is different.they find gay that is week and make joke obout him and beat him.So help me and tell me what to do i don't know. PS:DO YOU HAVE MSN THEN I CAN TALK WITH YOU BETTER.PLEAS HELP
Ever see a pack of dogs that gang up on a single dog? That's because ALL those other dogs are weak and are looking for acceptance from the group. But if you take one of those dogs out of the group they become nice. That's all a "bully" is. What you don't understand is that EACH one of those "friends" has a problem they are ashamed of..and are hiding it by focusing attention on someone else. If you were my son I would tell you to laugh along with them..Once you do that it takes away thier advantage..Don't let them see that it hurts you. After that find the leader and beat the crap out of him..But hey..that's a guy's opinion.
So what happened at school today? Dosen't matter much what country..a bully is still a bully.Hey if you think you have problems just look at the home page of this site. See Adam? He must have won Mr. Frankenstien World Cup 1999 thru 2007 and he still got a foxy wife with a neat hat. So..Listen it's a good idea to better yourself..lift weights run eat well and get good rest..whenever you feel down just look at Adam..Hey he did it. Make some money and all the girls will care about you.
we didn't go to school today but i'm going to doctor to asc him obout it,and adam is defenetly man i'm just a kid it isnt the same.I exercise a lot at home and don't eat much but i am fat and my boobs are like mom's.
In my school there isn't leader so i can't beat the crap out of him.thanks for helping me i'm now more in to my self.thanks and when i have a problem i can talk with you.OK.
Great advice and use of a pack of dogs.
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It is great you have the backing of your family to help you face this situation. If you post your story here, not on an I/M, you will find helpfull answers and support from many people and possibly someone who will have solution for you. Stay focused on who you are, not what others want to make you feel like. Even though it is hard at times, NO BODY can change your mood unless you let them. Stay happy, enjoy this time in your life and as getagrip said, laugh along with them--just don't go to far and choose someone else to pick on with them. There are many role models for you to look up to when it comes to having it hard in school, Bill Gates is one that I am sure many of his classmates regret ever teasing!!!!
Keep in touch and keep tough.
If you look to the left hand side of the forum page, you will find 'man boobs' listed and if you click on this, you can read the discussion that took place almost a year ago and you may find some help in there. There are other men with this problem and they discuss what they did to help. As for the surgery, a female friend had 5 pounds, NOW, NO RUDE JOKES, removed from EACH breast. There was no muscle removed, only fatty tissue in her case. Yet there is the surgical incision that may have to cut through some muscle to get to the removable tissue, but not sure.
The grass is always greener...
I agree with MR and you should listen. She talks from the woman side of this. Now I'm talking from the Male side. What does your Dad say? I say there must be someone who is picking on you the most. To me that's the "leader". Who is that one? Now find that one alone..and beat the crap out of him. There's always one that needs the crap beat out of him (or Her).I know you say you're 15. Have you ever been in a fight? Only the first punch hurts. Never be intimidated by anyone..And the larger the group the tougher you get. If you're Muslim read the Koran. If you're Christian read the Bible. You will find instruction there but you can also contact us at any time.
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